Tuesday, November 13, 2012

The Happy Day Project 2012 Recap

What is the Happy Day Project? It's a fun little project created by blogger Jeannett at Life Rearranged. It's a week full of random acts of kindness intended to brighten someone's day. How cool is that?  


These tasks were not about instant gratification. Some were not easy to perform. But what is a little social discomfort endured for the greater good? It was a great teaching tool for my kids too.



Day 1: Send Handwritten Letters. Writing my husband was a given. Sending a birthday card not my norm.  I'm terrible at birthday wishes. I also sent an encouraging letter to a friend having a difficult time during her husband's deployment.  A few days later, I got an unexpected email sharing how needed my letter was. It had been another rough week for her. Why does it take a blog 'project' to remind me how important sharing love, empathy, and attention with others is? I irritate myself!



Day 2: Gift Card for the Homeless. I bought a McD's gift card. Enough to buy a meal. And I knew I would have the card gone by the time my errands were complete. Wrong! It took 6 days to find someone to give the card to. Monday I stopped for coffee and the kids were with me. We saw a man digging through the trash collecting recyclables. My daughter reminded me of the card in the glovebox and my heart started beating faster. I did not want to have this encounter. I wanted him to have the card. I just didn't want to give it to him. I walked over to him and held the card out. I said "Good morning. I have something for you. There should be enough to buy you breakfast." He was sincerely happy. It was a good feeling knowing he would have one meal that day.


Day 3: Treat Someone. I brought pizza to a pregnant friend who is having serious complications.  Her husband came home on emergency leave from Afghanistan to care for her. I think they needed to be treated.


Day 4: Operation Christmas Child. Our boxes were due on Sunday at church. This was just the encouragement I needed to make sure we filled the boxes. The boys were happy to have a project helping others. Dollar bin at the Target sure helped! The kids made it personal and donated their candy and stickers.


Day 5: Appreciate Those In Service. We bought a gift card for coffee and handed it to one of the gate guards. The weather had turned colder and a warm drink seemed like the perfect way to show our appreciation. Standing guard at the gates must be one of the most miserable jobs, especially in the rain and cold. I wouldn't feel nearly as safe in my home, if those guys weren't (literally) standing duty all night. So thankful!

I am so happy Jeanett has created and shared this project with all of us. I think of all the lives touched this week because of her willingness to share.

Nicole

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Gratitude Journal

This week it's about the little things. I got my last email from the husband earlier this week. I probably won't be hearing much, if anything from him for awhile. It takes me a little bit to process and deal but I manage. I'm considering lots of little stuff I'm grateful for instead of focusing on the one big thing I don't have. I have long since accepted my husband isn't here (most days) but losing communication is another readjustment.

I am grateful deployment is only temporary.

I am grateful my husband is not in a combat zone.

I am grateful we have the US Postal Service. Snail mail is better than nothing.

I am grateful for the rain. A change in weather is always good.

I am grateful for cooler temps. Hello, sweaters and jeans!

I am grateful for a neighborhood full of kids. Lots of energy to burn with tons of playmates.

I am grateful my kids willingly sold me all of their Halloween candy this week. (The sugar highs were trying my patience.)

I am grateful I got to enjoy one last seasonal Salted Caramel Mocha before our area Starbucks run out of sea salt. Or so the lady wants me to believe.

I am grateful for a weekly Bible Study group which encourages me to read the Bible.

I am grateful for the kids getting along tonight so I can have a little quiet time.

I am grateful God placed someone in my life who is moving to Japan so I can unload all my Japanese dictionaries and language books on her. I had a weird attachment to those books and couldn't just donate them.

I am grateful I finally had the desire and energy to start organizing the storage closet, for the hundredth time.

I am grateful my desire to hold on to things is weakening.

I am grateful for a weekend to chill at home.

I am grateful my husband's lack of communication gives me the opportunity to lead the conversation. Let's him know he is still a priority.

I am grateful tonight's gratitude journal was written right before I posted. I feel so much better!

Come link up with me at Sunday Gratitude Link Up!
Nicole


Sunday Gratitude Link Up #4


Welcome to the weekly Sunday Gratitude Linkup.

I hope you are linking up today to share your gratitude, thanksgiving, or reflection posts. For many months, I have been posting my gratitude journal every Sunday. I use a gratitude journal to keep me thinking more positive, especially when I'm not feeling so blessed. Recently, I began the Sunday Gratitude Linkup to invite other bloggers to do the same. I hope you will join me!

This is the 4th week of the Sunday Gratitude Linkup. Last week we had 6 bloggers linking up. I am thankful to everyone for continuing to support this Little Engine That Could. My hope is this linkup will continue to grow each week with your support.
  
Here are a few simple guidelines to keep true to the Gratitude Linkup:

Post your 'gratitude post' URL, not your blog URL. Click on the title of your gratitude post, copy the URL from the address bar. Paste into the Inlinkz. 

Link back to this blog in your post. Grab the Adventures of a Semper Fi Family button or use a text link. What is a text link? It's 'linking up here' kind of thing. This will help spread the word about the Sunday Gratitude Linkup and give others a chance to participate.

Read others gratitude posts, leave a comment, and encourage them to continue posting.

Let your gratitude overflow!
Nicole

Friday, November 9, 2012

InstaFriday: Random Joy

What does a goofy girl, random piles of toys, and a goodwill project have in common?
They are all making an appearance in this InstaFriday post.


Target is weekly entertainment for us. Sometimes we shop, sometimes we try on random stuff that shouldn't be sold.


And sometimes she tries on things which should be sold but not worn together. 
I believe this is Captain IronThor.


This week I began The Happy Day Project created by Jeannett at Life Rearranged.
I admire Jeanett's initiative in creating and encouraging others to serve.
The Happy Day Project has been a fun experience and certainly sent me outside my comfort zone.
Day 1 Sending hand-written letters. I sent out three. I received one BIG thank you. 
Unexpected but very cool! I have two more Happy Days to complete (five total). 
Look for a followup post tomorrow.


Christmas books are on display at the local bookstore. 
I want them all!
Starting on Thanksgiving through New Years Day, I read only holiday books.
It's something silly I started years ago and have kept the tradition going.


We got a package from my husband!
The boys were so excited. I guess Zac went down to the neighbor and told her all about his gifts. 
He never says more than 'hi' to her any other day. 


I am continuing to learn to sew. This week I made boy burp cloths.
I don't have a baby but I live on a military base. I am confident I will be able to give them away.
Burp cloths are the easiest thing to make.

And that, friends, is my week in pictures.
Please stop by tomorrow for my Happy Day Project recap.

Nicole


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

What I Wore Wednesday...20

The Big 2-0! 20 weeks I have been blogging, that is. This little blog is growing up.
I'm celebrating with The Pleated Poppy for What I Wore Wednesday.

As a celebratory gift, I'm indulging in a little self-promotion for
Sunday Gratitude Link Up.
It's new. I'm excited. Hope you will join!
In the first three weeks, there have been great bloggers
linking up inspiring gratitude posts.
Check it out here.

Now time for outfits....


Sweater-ATL
Tank- ALT
Jeans- Calvin Klein


Dress-Target
Scarf-??
Boots- Steve Madden


Sweater- Old Navy
Shorts- Banana Republic
FlipFlops- Target


Sweater- ATL
Tank- Target
Jeans- Banana Republic

Four outfits in one week?!? It may be a record.

Nicole